Metrosexual Charm

What exactly is metrosexual charm? Metrosexual charm is a combination of elements in your personality that basically make your more likable. As a metrosexual, your charm is important to helping you succeed in life. It will help you socially with women and with people in general, making you more successful. 

Charm is made up numerous personality elements. The most basic element to charm is friendliness. To be charming you must be social, you have to make people feel like they know you. This may sound harder than it actually is; it simply means that you have to relate to people. Just be talkative, not over the top where you don’t shut up, but answer people’s questions and ask questions.  This will keep a conversation going, by both sides engaging in communication. When people ask you a question, do not give them one word answers, just elaborate and explain yourself. When you are done, ask a question that relates to the person whom you are speaking with. In turn, they will do the same, and you will become more likable. Be humorous, but not offensive. Smile, it makes you more approachable.

Another element to charm is your presentation. Make yourself look like you care about your looks. Dress appropriately, and groom, do not look like a bum. Wearing a baseball cap, sporting an unshaved beard, t-shirt, shorts and flip flops may be very comfortable, but if you are trying to be charming, you will look like a bum. Look good, and smile!

Last element to charm is the illusion of success. Travel, study art, etc. You will have stories to talk about, and people will be engaged in your tales of fine living. Do not brag, but every now and then you can relate to a conversation with a story about your adventures in France and your discovery of the history of the Eiffel Tower’s architecture. 

All the elements of charm make you more successful. It will not come to your overnight, but with practice and experience, you will become a pro at being charming. It will help you with your entire life overall!

Metrosexual Manners

Manners are crucial for metrosexuals. If you do not have good manners and cannot carry yourself elegantly, you are never going to earn the title of a true metrosexual. You cannot just turn on and off those manners, and one of the most important times you should use your manners are when dating.

Manners are so important when it comes to dating, it can basically tell the women ahead of time whether or not you are charming or not, and charm is IMPORTANT for dating! First things first, you should make sure you are dressed appropriately (I know you are a metrosexual and can dress well, but you need to dress APPROPRIATELY). By dressing appropriately, I mean that you must make sure that you are wearing something that is right for the dating location. If you are in a fine restaurant; do not come in wearing jeans and a t-shirt, if you are out to the movies; do not show up in a suit. Make sure you are looking good, that also goes for grooming, but I’m sure I do not have to advise you on grooming properly (but just for kicks, make sure your hair is nice, you’ve showered, you shaved and you smell nice). 

Second, you must make sure you are courteous. Pull the chair out for your lady friend, offer to take her coat, offer her your coat if she is cold, etc. Be a gentleman, that’s the trick. If you do not know how to be a gentleman, read the Metrosexual Planet: Guide to Metrosexual Manners, Success and Women for free by downloading it to the right (just enter your name and email, you will receive the download link within minutes). Be complementary, and compliment your date. Tell her she looks nice, this is rewarding for her as she probably spent a lot of time putting together the proper outfit and looking good, JUST FOR YOU! If you are out to dinner, make sure you are taking your time eating (don’t be a turtle though), and don’t spill any food on yourself, etc. It’s embarrassing. Avoid opinionated heated discussions and don’t be rude to her. Don’t be rude to others either! It is okay if you defend yourself or your lady friend from an obnoxious or insulting remarks, but do not be rude to anyone for no reason or if it was a legitimate mistake. This shows a bad side of you!

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