Metrosexual Manners

Manners are crucial for metrosexuals. If you do not have good manners and cannot carry yourself elegantly, you are never going to earn the title of a true metrosexual. You cannot just turn on and off those manners, and one of the most important times you should use your manners are when dating.

Manners are so important when it comes to dating, it can basically tell the women ahead of time whether or not you are charming or not, and charm is IMPORTANT for dating! First things first, you should make sure you are dressed appropriately (I know you are a metrosexual and can dress well, but you need to dress APPROPRIATELY). By dressing appropriately, I mean that you must make sure that you are wearing something that is right for the dating location. If you are in a fine restaurant; do not come in wearing jeans and a t-shirt, if you are out to the movies; do not show up in a suit. Make sure you are looking good, that also goes for grooming, but I’m sure I do not have to advise you on grooming properly (but just for kicks, make sure your hair is nice, you’ve showered, you shaved and you smell nice). 

Second, you must make sure you are courteous. Pull the chair out for your lady friend, offer to take her coat, offer her your coat if she is cold, etc. Be a gentleman, that’s the trick. If you do not know how to be a gentleman, read the Metrosexual Planet: Guide to Metrosexual Manners, Success and Women for free by downloading it to the right (just enter your name and email, you will receive the download link within minutes). Be complementary, and compliment your date. Tell her she looks nice, this is rewarding for her as she probably spent a lot of time putting together the proper outfit and looking good, JUST FOR YOU! If you are out to dinner, make sure you are taking your time eating (don’t be a turtle though), and don’t spill any food on yourself, etc. It’s embarrassing. Avoid opinionated heated discussions and don’t be rude to her. Don’t be rude to others either! It is okay if you defend yourself or your lady friend from an obnoxious or insulting remarks, but do not be rude to anyone for no reason or if it was a legitimate mistake. This shows a bad side of you!

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How to Dress For Your First Date

Looking good on the first date is not actually something that the women wants; they actually want you to look appropriate for the first date. But, that being said, looks can actually help you quite a bit! By looks, I don’t mean that you have to be Brad Pitt or Justin Timberlake, but you have to take care of yourself. Luckily, for the true metrosexual, this is not a problem, but there may be some tips which you have overlooked. Here are a few things you should make sure for the first date:

• Grooming: Make sure your hair is done. Get a hair appointment a few hours before, and make sure your hair is styled to your liking. Make sure you shave the day of your date as well. That does not mean that if your style is a scruffy beard, that you go clean shaved, but shave the parts that should not be there. If you have a goatee, shave the scruff that should not be there. If you have scruff, trim it so that it is not unattractive. Put some cologne on, don’t shower in it, but a couple of sprays near the neck does not hurt (if it’s near the neck, she’ll come closer to you, just a tip). Check your breath, make sure you shower and you should be groomed to go.

• Clothing: Make sure you dress appropriately. Do not be over the top, and do not be too dressed down. Dress to the occasion. Depending on how casual the date is, that should determine how casual your clothing should be. Do not wear a tuxedo to the movie theatre, but do not wear sneakers to a fine Italian restaurant. 

• Jewellery: Jewellery does not matter that much, but if you insist on wearing a watch, or your earring, or any jewellery, just make sure it does not look cheap. Wear a nice watch, not a casio sports watch. Wear a nice thin chain, not a Flava Flav clock.

These are basically the nuts and bolts to dressing up on your first date. Remember though, it is not about how you look, it is all about how you present yourself. If you clean, and look like you take care of yourself, your lady friend will like that. It shows that you care, and hopefully you will put the same care into your lady!

3 Tips To Impress Your Date

Impressing your date is important, whether metrosexual or not. Anybody can take someone out, buy them dinner and leave. Keeping your date is something else! Impressing your date can help a lot, and here are three tips on how to impress your date:

• Focus on her: Make sure that you are paying attention to everything she says. This is really important that she feels that you care. Don’t be scared to compliment her once in a while, do not over do it, but complement her. Compliment her when you first see her to let her know she looks good. Then avoid any physical compliments! Compliment her on her personality. If she tells you a story about a hardship, compliment her strength and bravery. If she tells a story about how she helped a friend, compliment her on her generosity, etc.  Make her feel special and cared.

• Be honest and sincere: Just being simple and honest can go a long way. It will help her, because you will not be giving her any false hopes or lying to her, and it will help you because it will make it easier for you to talk by being honest. Chances are that your relationship will go a longer way, and you guys will be more comfortable with each other if you are just honest. It will also take a lot of pressure off of her to impress you, and you will get to know her better. Honesty is the way to go!

• Avoid conversations about past relationships: Do not talk about any exes, flings, one-night-stands, high school sweethearts, etc. Just avoid it! She already assumes that you’ve had a past relationship, but she does not want to know why it did not work out, and she does not want to be compared to anybody else. Just focus on her, back to tip 1!

These are three simple, yet important ways to impress your date. For more on Dating, read the Metrosexual Planet: Guide to Metrosexual Manners, Success and Women for free by entering your email on the right panel, and you will receive the download within minutes. The Metrosexual Planet: Guide to Metrosexual Manners, Success and Women is 250+ page eBook with tons of Metrosexual tips!